Domestic Abuse – When Family Members Attack
By Gina Famularo
A Family Law Attorney Offers Insight Into The Dark Side of Some Relationships.
Domestic abuse is so much more than just an ugly statistic on city records. Domestic abuse is the official name for the act of physically assaulting one member of a family by another member of the family. Unfortunately, it happens every day around the country.
Domestic abuse is defined as when someone close to another person attempts to dominate the other either physically or mentally. This is an extremely broad category so elder abuse, violent domestic partner situations, partner abuse, child abuse, or child neglect all fall under the same “domestic abuse” umbrella. Domestic abuse does not discriminate against race, age, economic status, or religious beliefs.
Types of Abuse
Physical threats, emotional abuse, harassment, sexual violence, and stalking are all types of domestic abuse. Physical threats can include verbal threats as well as non-verbal threats (motioning to punch, kick or cut a someone). Emotional abuse is again, a very broad category. Examples can include but are not limited to, humiliation of the victim, withholding information from the victim, or changing circumstances so that the offender has control over the victim.
Who is Affected by Domestic Abuse?
Domestic violence can affect anyone. Mothers, fathers, wives, husbands can all be victims of domestic abuse. Many stereotype domestic abuse to be a male on female problem, however numbers for female on male abuse are steadily rising. 20 Percent of all violent crimes against women have their male significant partners responsible while 3 percent of violent crimes against males have their female counterparts being responsible. As an interesting side note, women are more likely to be hurt as a result of initiating violence instead of the man in which the violence is directed toward.
Even though domestic violence can happen to anyone, women are six times more likely to be abused than men. Even though the women’s liberation movement helped immensely in uncovering and offering support to women victims of abuse, the actual number of abused people is nowhere near the amount of reported incidents, usually because of fear of retaliation or that the incident will be repeated.
Dealing with Abuse
The most important thing to remember when dealing with an abusive situation is that you need to remove the victim from the situation. There are several charities and homes set up to take care of and rehabilitate women and men who have been victims of domestic abuse. Domestic abuse takes it’s toll on every victim so the faster they can be taken out of the bad environment, the better chances the victim will have of recovering from the event(s).
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